So.. I'm a little ticked. .. But before I discuss the situation.. I have a question for you. What kind of Girlfriend/Wife/Fiance are you? Are you the kind that obsesses over you boyfriend/husband/fiance? Do you have to be by their side every second the day? Do you call them every minute they aren't with you? Or do you give them their space? Do you let them go out with friends.. etc.
So here's the little situation.. I might seem obsessive.. I might not. Whatever.
Seeing as it is our last week home with the kids for the summer, Ryan took the week off... well except for yesterday. He said he wanted to spend time with the family. Whatever. That's fine by me. You really didn't have to. Seriously. Anyway.. So he wants to spend time with us.. how sweet.. but do you call going out and spending time with your 'buddies' spending time with your family? In my book, NO! But I understand fully that you need that time with them too. I know them. I know your not going to go have a one night stand. But just simply tell me that you're going to one of their houses or somewhere with them. Please don't lie to me. Don't tell me that you're going to the store then over to you parents [who just moved down here :)] and then not come home until 3:30am. If you think I sleep soundly, think wrong. Ever since having kids, unlike you, I sleep very un-soundly. The little thing such as the wind blowing will wake me. So that means I heard you walking in the door then making your way upstairs to the bathroom so I didn't hear the toilet flushing.. well sorry.. I did. Then.. when you try to open the bedroom door so it doesn't squeck, it does. Then when you try to tip-toe so I don't hear you, the floor creeks.. I HEARD YOU! I felt you getting into bed. I'm not stupid retard.
All I ask is, please don't freakin' lie to me. If you would have told me you were going to Logan's house to have some drinks and do whatever.. I wouuldn't have cared. Seriously. But you lieing really ticked me off. And answer me when I call you. Text me back.. do whatever. Don't just leave me hangin' all night with the kids not knowing where the hell you are..
[I called him like.. uhm 20 times because he wouldn't answer.. and texted like 5.. but only because I didn't know where he was. ]
Ok.. all done now. I feel a little bit better.
2 years ago
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i don't blame u 4 being mad/irritated whatever. i would have been too. ur right, don't lie, be honest. i think by being sneaky it looks like ur hiding something. and if that wasn't his original intent, to go to this guy's house, all he had to do was call. it was sweet that he took off work, but now he gets a small strike for that move.
hopefully u get this all worked out!
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